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- Sep 25, 2026
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Advice: My partner died by suicide. What should I tell people? (opens the original)
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Suicide is a particular kind of loss, filled with unanswered and often unanswerable questions, along with ongoing societal stigma. Content warning: This story discusses suicide. Helplines can be found at the bottom of the page. Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader who believes her partner’s family secrets may have contributed to his death. Question: One year ago, my live-in life partner ended his life. I had no prior warning, no idea of what he had been planning. At t
Advice: My son’s racist views are destroying our family (opens the original)
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What should you do when one child's actions have split a family in two? Illustration / Marta Monteiro, The New York Times Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader who wants to maintain a relationship with her son while protecting her daughter from his hurtful behaviour. Question: My son has somehow – probably from spending too much time on the wrong websites – become a racist. We are white, and these are not at all the values I bestowed upon my children. My daughter is marrie
Advice: My partner is dying. How do we talk about it? (opens the original)
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"Sometimes people are surprised to learn that when one person in a marriage is seriously ill, grieving doesn’t start after the death occurs. Instead, both partners grieve throughout the illness, but often in their own ways." Illustration / Marta Monteiro, The New York Times Columnist and psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb advises a reader who fears discussing end-of-life affairs will make her husband think she wants him gone. Question: My husband has terminal cancer, and I don’t know how much time I
Advice: I left my girlfriend for someone else. What if I made a mistake? (opens the original)
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"Is what I feel for my ex grief, or something unresolved that deserves to be addressed?" Illustration / Marta Monteiro, The New York Times Our Ask the Therapist columnist, Lori Gottlieb, advises a reader whose avoidant communication style is making a breakup more complicated. Question: I’m in my 20s and recently ended a six-year relationship. The reasons were issues related to differing sexual needs and her controlling family (dictating where she lived, how she travelled, whether she could visit
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