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- Aug 20, 2026
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- Jul 15, 2026
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Can You Still Date Men While Decentering Them From Your Life? (opens the original)
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I have no idea when or where I first encountered the phrase “decentering men.” All I know is that by the time it weaved its way into my vocabulary a few years ago, I seemed to understand it instinctively. This concept, wherever it came from, put words to something I’d been experiencing in my own life both consciously and subconsciously as my relationship to men—what I wanted from them, how I saw them, and how I saw myself in terms of them—began to shift in the latter half of my 20s. According to
Is It Time to Retire the “Intentional Dating” Trend? (opens the original)
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I’m someone with both “fun, casual dates” and “a long-term relationship” in the “What I’m Looking For” section of my dating app profiles. I’m not confused; just generally open to seeing where things go. I don’t want kids and am not particularly inclined towards marriage, so my love life is largely free of biological clock–imposed timelines. Sure, I’m looking for love in the “aren’t we all?” sense, but I’m pretty indifferent to labels. I want to love and be loved but not necessarily under the ban
Is Your Relationship Headed for a Frontal Lobe Breakup? (opens the original)
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You might assume that a fully formed brain would be a good thing to bring to a relationship, but it turns out mental maturation could actually be the death of one—assuming you believe in frontal lobe breakups, that is. According to those that do, a “frontal lobe breakup” is one that occurs suddenly in your mid-20s, supposedly as the result of construction wrapping on the prefrontal cortex around that age. Essentially, the idea is that the cognitive clarity of a finished brain has a way of shinin
Is “Friendfluence” the Antidote to Dating Burnout? (opens the original)
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As you may be aware, Tinder recently declared “friendfluence” one of the top dating trends of the year, reporting that nearly half of daters say their friends have a significant influence on their love lives—including who they date. Of course, introducing a new partner to your friends or merging social circles in a relationship has always been a major part of dating. But according to Devyn Simone, Tinder’s resident relationship expert, “friendfluence” is about more than just getting a vibe check
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