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1. Article · Sep 4, 2026 · Kat Farmer

   On holiday, I realised it was time to leave my husband: KAT FARMER (opens the original)

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   For lots of people, holidays are a tinderbox. There’s this pressure to have the best possible time ever because a) everyone else is (I mean, we’ve all seen the adverts), b) you’re in the most magical place in the world, and c) you have spent so much money. And yet, if you weren’t in a great place back at home, a holiday is like a magnifying glass on your marital problems, because you’ve packed up all those issues and squeezed them into a one-bedroom villa – it’s a case of ‘same s***, different k

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2. Article · Jul 31, 2026 · Kat Farmer

   I never thought this would break me after my divorce: KAT FARMER (opens the original)

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   During all the difficult moments I went through when leaving my husband of 20 years and moving out of our family home, at no point did I envisage it would be a missed John Lewis delivery that would break me. Yet here I was – day one in the flat I had rented and, for reasons too mundane even to go into, with just a mattress on the floor for a bed. I burst into tears, saying to myself, 'This is just not fair. I'm 50 years old and I don't even have a bed – it wasn't meant to be like this.' Much as

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