HeyJaredJessica Stoya
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- Sep 30, 2026
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My Fiancé’s … Limitation in Bed Means We Can Only Have Sex One Way. Can I Live Like This Forever? (opens the original)
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Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! I have been with my fiancé for four years now. We are in a monogamous, respectful relationship, and I am very much in love with him. My issue is that he has a small penis. He has no problem using toys, oral, etc.—basically anything to get me where I need to go. My
My Husband Came Home From a Work Trip With an Unwelcome Development. Now We’re Living a Nightmare. (opens the original)
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Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! My husband travels a lot for his job, and last week, I discovered he had crabs. It’s been a nightmare with that disgusting cream, but the worst thing is I know he must have cheated on me. He swears up and down that he didn’t; he insists he must have picked them up
I Just Found Out What My Boyfriend Thinks About During His … Solo Time. I Don’t Like This Side of Him. (opens the original)
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Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! I have been with my boyfriend for over two and a half years now. He just confessed to me that he has always fantasized about other women when he masturbates, even before we met, and still does so while being in the relationship. He’s fantasized about all his female
I Had an Unexpectedly Great Sexual Experience. Now I’ve Got to Figure Out How to Recreate It. (opens the original)
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Our advice columnists have heard it all over the years—so we’re diving into the How to Do It archives to share classic letters with our readers. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. (It’s anonymous!) I’m a healthy 42-year-old male, currently single, and open and adventurous sexually. For the first time in a decade probably, I was caught masturbating by a neighbor who let herself into my discreet side yard looking for a missing cat. I won’t go into all the details, but she saw everyth
Every Time My Long Distance Boyfriend Comes to Town, Something Strange Happens. My Body Might Be Trying to Tell Me Something. (opens the original)
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Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! I’m a 32-year-old woman in a newish long-distance relationship with a man I knew back in high school, who I reconnected with when he was on a work trip in my city. We live about a four-hour drive apart and have been seeing each other for about seven months now. We’
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