HeyJaredB.A. Marvell
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People Who Focus On Their Own Happiness First Without Being Selfish Usually Have 11 Basic Habits (opens the original)
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"A passion for pleasure is the secret of remaining young," said Oscar Wilde. Poor Oscar, though, who lived in unenlightened times and suffered for his pleasures. But I did learn a thing or two from his highly quotable self about living a velvety, extravagant existence. If this is our only shot at living, we must indulge a little bit. Am I wrong, darling? So reach for all the meaning you want, but here are my thoughts on how to truly focus on your own happiness and pleasure while being just the r
Men With Low Mental & Emotional Integrity Often Do 18 Sketchy Things To Avoid Commitment (opens the original)
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Stamps. Bugs. Coins. First-Edition Books. Comic books. Bobbleheads. You think collecting is the purview of the nerdy, the creepy, or the childlike. (No offense, collectors, we all have our quirks.) But the same way he considers it a warning sign if your bed's coated in a menagerie of stuffed animals, you should be warned that certain behaviors signal you're in the presence of a man with low mental & emotional integrity, AKA a collector. And who is he looking to collect? You. The collector pursue
Women Who Are Mentally & Emotionally Obsessed With Someone Often Do 10 Unhinged Things (opens the original)
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I’m happily married, but as a writer, I'm not a stranger to obsessing. When one of my books comes out, I check the Amazon rank every 10 seconds. Or the shares and comments on my articles. Or how much better every other writer in the universe is handling their books, lives, and online presence? The sad truth about mentally and emotionally obsessing over someone is that it prevents you from doing something new, while you chew and gnaw on the old. (And, yes, the maybe-not-real-at-all.) This was goi
Men Who Are Emotionally & Mentally Immature Often Do 9 Things That Women Find Totally Exhausting (opens the original)
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Men have a lot of terms for what women do that they find unattractive. They have a word for every loud laugh, or every opinion we say a little too loud. Meanwhile, no one seems interested in turning the tables. There are things men do that aren't so hot, either. They are often the behaviors of a man who hasn't finished growing up and it can be exhausting in a way that has little to do with physical attraction, but they can destroy attraction in a minute nonetheless. I might genuinely like your m
I'm A Self-Aware Narcissist & If You Love Someone Like Me You Should Probably Know These 18 Things (opens the original)
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I don't know when I became a self-aware narcissist. I mean, I probably was always the narcissist part, but the self-aware bit came one day when I said something self-deprecating and someone told me not to be so hard on myself. My response was, "My self-deprecation is just another form of self-absorption." Epiphany time! Assured of my palatable form of narcissism, I patted myself on the back and then went to check the mirror to see if I looked wiser but hopefully not older. I looked the same but
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