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Can you pull your pants down for me? Just for a sec (opens the original)
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I had been working for hours on cataloguing anatomical illustrations from Human Sexuality textbooks when my then boyfriend arrived and I asked him to pull down his pants. After so many hairless illustrations of scrotum, my sense of reality was warped. I needed proof that scrotum grow hair because the textbook images had begun to gaslight me into believing I had made it up. Spoiler alert: Scrotum do grow hair.Subscribe now<a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img"
Are you ever your own worst enemy? (opens the original)
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We were in an Uber and I asked Alfredo not to speak. It was all I could do to hold myself together. The car pulled up to my building, I ran into my apartment, rushed past the kitchen, and nearly collapsed in the hallway. The secludedness of this space afforded me the privacy I felt I needed to finally allow the dam of tears and anxiety I had been holding back wash over me. Alfredo held me as the release brought me back and reminded me that I was safe.This is what it can look like, sometimes even
Smorgasbord of Updates (opens the original)
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I have been a mix of busy bee and taking time to be with loved ones over the last few months which means I’ve been doing a lot but been poor at sharing about it. Rather than waiting until I have put together some beautifully written post to talk about all the things (I’ve been meaning to write about honeymoons for weeks...), I am sharing the updates straight up as a quick list below because done is so much better than perfect:Podcast episode!I think I may have forgotten to this include this last
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