HeyJaredWhisper Lounge Podcast
You were meant to find us. This is a space for the conversations that don’t fit into neat boxes. A place where sex, identity, and relationships aren’t bound by binaries, and where morality is a spectrum, not a rulebook.
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Like Hell I'm Going to Hell (opens the original)
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I used to admire the people standing on street corners with megaphones, warning strangers to repent before it's too late. I admired their conviction because if I actually believed what they believed, wouldn't I be out there too? That question is where this episode starts. A shorter one this time. Unplanned, no proper mic, recorded because I couldn't wait to say it. This is the theology behind the shame. Growing up in a conservative Christian home where sin was real and sexual sin was the realest
Sex Magic & Manifestation: Pleasure Isn't the Reward (opens the original)
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A lover once told me something at exactly the right moment to lodge itself permanently in my brain: at the peak of climax, imagine the thing you want. I filed it away and didn't think about it again for a long time. This episode is what happened when I finally pulled that sentence back out. It sent me looking into Napoleon Hill's Think and Grow Rich and the century-old idea of sexual "transmutation," into a sociologist named Max Weber and the Protestant work ethic, and into two women teaching ve
What's the Disgust In You Protecting? (opens the original)
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I felt disgusted watching a woman touch another woman's breasts on television. That surprised me - I host a podcast about sexual freedom. This episode starts with a documentary called Bang My Box, about Robin Byrd, who ran her own uncensored show on New York public access television starting in 1977. Watching clips of her fully, joyfully unashamed, something in me recoiled. Not arousal. Disgust. And I had to sit with why. That question sent me into research I didn't expect - the birth control pi
The Kinks We're Allowed to Have: Permission, Trauma Myths, and the Real Psychology of BDSM (opens the original)
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She said the word dominatrix at dinner. Her friends didn't know what it meant. That conversation is where this episode starts... and it doesn't stop there. This one goes further than most: the myth that kink comes from trauma (it doesn't — the actual research says something more precise and more interesting), where the shame around kink actually came from historically, and a very personal story about money, control, and a meditation technique called the Deepest Fear Inventory — a practice for ge
I Used to Say I Was Magical (opens the original)
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I used to tell people I was magical. Somewhere in the last few years, I lost that word. This episode starts with a twinge I never had a name for — until Queer Eye gave me one — and a meditation practice that's been quietly taking apart a wall I didn't know I'd built. It moves through a youth group memory I can still see clearly: a sermon about Titanic, a poop-in-the-brownies analogy, and the exact moment they filed a beautiful, aching love story under sinful. From there it goes into alchemy — ac
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