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My Wife Survived Acute Postpartum Psychosis. She Could Have Been Lindsay Clancy. (opens the original)
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In this episode, we’re sharing a story we’ve never fully told together.After the birth of our daughter, Kristen developed acute postpartum psychosis.At the worst of it, she believed Roger was drugging our daughter. She believed he was part of the Illuminati. She became convinced that people she loved were dangerous. And yet, at times, she could still hold conversations, make business decisions, and appear relatively normal to the people around her.Eventually, Kristen attempted suicide.Roger watc
My Husband Turned Into a Stranger At His Own Family's Dinner Table (opens the original)
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My husband Roger’s family was in town for his 40th birthday, and I watched my husband turn into a completely different man in real time. Not a bad man. A familiar one. The one who leaves his plate on the table because someone else will handle it. The one who disappears outside to smoke with his dad while the women deal with the kitchen. The one who, forgot the dishwasher existed.<a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!liyg!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl
Stop Trying to Fix Your Husband Immediately (Do This Instead) (opens the original)
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This Week’s Podcast:Kristen and Roger just spent a month with both sets of parents in town, and it went smoother than any trip before it. In this episode, they break down the real reason why: not therapy, not new boundaries, but a shift Kristen calls expanding your vessel. They talk about why trying to fix or manage the people around you backfires every time, why centuries of women being silenced still shows up in how men shut down during conflict, and the exact moment Kristen caught Roger slipp
I Faked Gratitude for Years. Here's What I Learned (opens the original)
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I used to fake it.My husband would hand me a gift and I’d do the whole thing... big smile, “BABE, I LOVE IT!!!” the hug, all of it. Underneath it, this quiet, kind of ugly little story on repeat... wow. He really doesn’t know me, huh. (Very on-brand for a good Chinese daughter, btw, we’re bred to smile and swallow it.) I never said it out loud. I just filed it away as evidence.Here’s what I’ve come to believe after years of talking to women about this: every s
Everyone's Doing Love Languages Wrong. Here's What Works. (opens the original)
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This Week’s Podcast:Why your husband doesn’t know what you need (and it’s not because he doesn’t care).Kristen and Roger talk about the #1 mistake couples make in marriage communication: assuming connection happens by accident. In this episode, they break down Gottman’s research on what actually makes marriages last, introduce a framework that goes way deeper than the five love languages, and share the exact tool they’ve used to keep the spark alive, and why it’s what actually pre
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