Unlabeled Love
A supportive, judgment-free podcast for spouses of gender expansive people, such as crossdressers—where love meets lipstick and real talk.
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- Sep 10, 2026
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- Jul 8, 2026
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022 Myths & Truths (opens the original)
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Violet and McCartney address common myths about cross‑dressing and emphasize how partners can communicate through them. They encourage using nonjudgmental questions, active listening, and clarifying what each person means rather than making assumptions. They highlight the importance of ongoing dialogue, especially as feelings shift over time. They also recommend setting and negotiating boundaries collaboratively , with both partners having genuine choice in what feels comfortable. When communica
021 Navigating Health (opens the original)
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Violet and McCartney discuss how illness or hospitalization can create extra caregiving challenges when a spouse is gender-expansive and may still want gender-affirming clothing, names, and routines. They encourage couples to talk in advance, create a flexible game plan for both partners’ potential health crises, and consider end-of-life wishes and what to do with clothing and belongings after death. What conversations and plans could you start now so you’re not forced to decide everything in a
020 Why Stay? (opens the original)
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Violet and McCartney discuss why some significant others choose to stay with a cross-dressing or gender-expansive spouse. They note that acceptance, honest communication, and mutually respected boundaries can help couples navigate the change. They remind listeners that staying is a choice—not an obligation—and leaving doesn’t mean anyone failed. What reasons, boundaries, and defining moments would guide you if you discovered your partner was gender-expansive? You can contact us: Email: unlabeled
019 Intimacy, Sexuality, and Gender Identity (opens the original)
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Violet and McCartney focus on whether cross-dressing is always about sex, noting it can be sexual for some, nonsexual for others, or shift over time from fetish to gender expression and authenticity. They compare experiences and emphasize that partners should examine attraction and comfort levels, set and communicate boundaries, and recognize intimacy can include affection without sex. You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.com Instagram - UnlabeledLove Facebo
018 Where's my husband? (opens the original)
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McCartney and Violet’s conversation centers on partners of gender-expansive spouses sometimes missing “their husband,” wanting predictability and to be the focus without managing an alter ego’s feelings. They emphasize examining what “wanting the old husband back” means, communicating boundaries respectfully, and recognizing they can’t control how their partner receives those feelings You can contact us: email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.com Instagram - UnlabeledLove Facebook
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