Things I want my kids to know
As a therapist and as a parent, these are the things I want my kids to know. By Ted Bradshaw, Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Honorary Assistant Professor of Psychological Therapies at the University of Nottingham, and father of three. cbtted.substack.com
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When you feel worse in the Winter (opens the original)
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It is not uncommon for mood or mental health to feel worse over the Winter. Our first go-to explanation for that is biological: the lack of sunlight. However, while this is a very useful and important aspect to consider, there are other things that can make the Winter harder, too. This episode is all about those things, and what we can do about them. Thank you for listening. As always, here are all the links for the different places you can listen or watch, and how to access more if you want to.
Public speaking (opens the original)
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This one is something I have worked on a lot myself, and still feel nervous about, but not to the degree that it particularly stops me doing what I want to do. So, these are my thoughts about what helps both in terms of helping you feel like you are doing a better job at it, but also feeling less anxious about the whole thing.I hope it's helpful. As always, here are all the places you can watch or listen. Apple Spotify Youtube This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other su
Grief and complex grief (opens the original)
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Grief is never straightforward, and there isn't only one path that it follows. So, the term "complex grief" might be a confusing one. However, there are times when we might find ourselves crushed by a loss, and times when a loss feels like something that is painful but something we can handle. In this episode my intention is to talk about what kinds of things make grief even more complex than it already is, and what we can do to help ourselves and others. I hope it’s helpful. As usual, you can l
Being present (opens the original)
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"Being present" isn't always easy. I am often doing my best to be fully engaged but really finding that my mind is partly off elsewhere. Maybe thinking about work, jobs I've got to do, things like that. It might be harder when there's something big going on - a worry about health, finances or someone you love, for example.In this episode I talk about a few ways in which you might help yourself to be that little bit more present and importantly: some realistic expectations of how present it is re
Self-acceptance: how do you do that? (opens the original)
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Self-acceptance is a lovely idea but often a very hard thing to do. In this episode I talk about what makes this hard, and one particular and very effective way of approaching it. Sometimes we think of self-acceptance we end up thinking about grand gestures of self-love. Treating yourself to something, walking on the beach with motivational music playing that speaks about empowerment, maybe. But maybe self-acceptance works just like acceptance of other people: it isn't always big or grand gestur
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