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The Work of Being Human

This is a podcast about facing truth in a world that keeps offering better-sounding lies. We talk about the ideas people organize their lives around—spiritually, psychologically, relationally, and culturally—and what those ideas actually do to real human beings when lived out.

Podcast · By Vanessa Bentley · English · Official site

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Sep 21, 2026
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  1. Episode · Sep 21, 2026

    A Therapist's Take on TOXIC FEMININITY: Female Power Games (opens the original)

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    We’ve heard about toxic masculinity until we’re blue in the face. But what about TOXIC FEMININITY? In this episode, I’m turning the lens toward us women and asking what happens when the very qualities that make femininity powerful become tools for gaining power over other people. I explore the natural flexibility, responsiveness, creativity, and nurturing capacity of the feminine—and how those strengths can become distorted when we move from responding to reality to trying to control it. Using t

  2. Episode · Sep 14, 2026

    ADHD: The Human Behind the Label - with Paul Drayton (opens the original)

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    ADHD isn't a good enough explanation... Paul Drayton was diagnosed with ADHD in 2021. Like many people, receiving the diagnosis brought relief. Experiences and behaviors that had confused him for years suddenly had a name.But does giving something a name explain it?In this conversation, I wanted to try something different. Instead of interpreting Paul through the diagnosis, I wanted to understand HIM.So we moved away from the label and into his life.We talked about the sensitive little boy who s

  3. Episode · Aug 31, 2026

    STOP DEFINING YOURSELF WITH A DIAGNOSIS: Therapy Culture Isn't Therapy (opens the original)

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    I’m a therapist who 's had enough of therapy culture! One of my biggest pet peeves with it is the way we’ve turned mental health diagnoses into explanations for human beings. Depression. Anxiety. ADHD. Bipolar disorder. Narcissism . We throw these labels around as though they explain *why* someone thinks, feels, and behaves the way they do. They don’t. A diagnosis tells you the WHAT . It does not tell you the WHY . This week, I’m digging into what psychiatric diagnoses actually are, how they evo

  4. Episode · Aug 24, 2026

    Has COMPASSION Gone Too Far? (Yes.) (opens the original)

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    It seems like every public controversy eventually divides us into two camps: the people demanding accountability at all costs and the people so focused on suffering that accountability starts to disappear. I call them the Moral Police and the Victim Brigade. But I think both sides are getting something fundamentally wrong. In this episode, I’m looking at the relationship between truth, compassion, and personal responsibility through the lens of mental health. Does understanding someone’s pain ma

  5. Episode · Aug 17, 2026

    WHAT MAKES A MAN STRONG? Why Strength is More Than Power with Trey Tucker (opens the original)

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    What does it actually mean to be a strong man? In this episode, I sit down with therapist Trey Tucker of Rugged Counseling to talk about men, masculinity, strength, shame, vulnerability, and the deep need many men have to know that they are valuable—not simply for what they accomplish, provide, or achieve, but for who they are. Trey and I talk about the fear underneath so much male performance: *What if I'm not good enough?* That belief can send men in opposite directions. Some spend their lives

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