HeyJaredThe UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm
For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.
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EP 442 Expressing Your Dark Parts Healthily (opens the original)
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Every man has parts of himself he may not particularly like admitting are there. Aggression. Dominance. The desire to hunt, take, compete, capture, or exert power. Recently, someone asked me how I deal with what I’d call my own inner predator or dark masculine. My answer starts here: I acknowledge that it exists. Because pretending those parts aren’t there doesn’t make them disappear. What we suppress has a way of coming out sideways. In this solo episode, I talk about what it means to actually
EP 441 How to Practice Dominance While Single | Coral Osborne (opens the original)
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How do you practice dominance when you’re single and don’t have a partner to practice with? The answer has a lot less to do with flirting than you might think. In this short Q&A, Coral Osborne and I break down why dominance starts with everyday interactions: creating connection, taking initiative, paying attention to how people respond, and learning how to lead without needing anything in return. You can get reps talking to the cashier at the supermarket. Meeting someone new. Starting a conversa
EP 440 A Giraffe Named Feelings | Dr. Jeremy Goldberg (opens the original)
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Jeremy Goldberg is back on the podcast with a book he spent five years trying not to write. A Giraffe Named Feelings is a memoir about the parts of his life he spent years avoiding, numbing, or simply not knowing how to talk about. We get into his parents’ divorce, his mom’s alcoholism, his own relationship with alcohol and drugs, getting cheated on, sobriety, and what happened when he finally let his parents read the stories he had written about them. We also talk about writing from the wound v
EP 439 What Women Actually Remember About Great Sex | Coral Osborne (opens the original)
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A woman can feel when your words and your motive don’t match. And according to sexologist Coral Osborne, that disconnect matters far more than whether you know the right positions, techniques, or lines to say. Coral joins me for a conversation about sexual honesty, desire, boundaries, aftercare, and one of the most important skills I didn’t learn until much later in life: attunement. We talk about what Coral calls the “clean taker,” why hiding your sexual desire can actually make you feel less s
EP 438 Eat. Pray. Sub. | Julieta Chiara (opens the original)
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About a year ago, I typed “Shibari” into Spotify because I needed something better to tie people to than my liked songs — which are basically 80s music, Metallica, and the Little Drummer Boy. A playlist called Chiara Shibari popped up. I used it for the next year with absolutely no idea Chiara was an actual human being. Then I found Julieta Chiara on Substack and had the very mature realization: Oh shit. It’s her. Julieta is a submissive mentor and Shibari master who’s been in the kink lifestyle
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