The Therapist Who Came Undone
Psychologist and writer, sharing (anonymously, for now) from both sides of the therapy room. This is where the mask comes off. I write about falling apart and the messy, brave work of becoming real—with painful honesty, compassion, and authenticity.
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How Can This Be?* (opens the original)
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I’m sure many of you have read about the recent lawsuit against Cornell University. If not, I want to warn you that what follows is deeply disturbing. If you’re triggered by accounts of sexual assault, please stop reading now. For those of you who can bear to hear about it, I think it’s important that we talk.Earlier this month, a former Cornell student filed a lawsuit alleging that she was drugged and sexually assaulted by multiple members of the Chi Phi fraternity in October 2024. According to
Drunk Girls Can’t Consent (opens the original)
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A brief note before today’s essay: I wrote this piece weeks before the recent allegations at Cornell became public. The timing is coincidental, but the news is a painful reminder of how much it matters what we talk about with our children, and what we model for them, before we send them out into the world.____________________________________________________________________________I’m writing this six hours and forty-three minutes into a seven-hour-and-eleven-minute drive. I’m sitting in the back
A Small Change Around Here (opens the original)
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I’m writing to tell you about something I’ve been putting off for a while. I’ve gone back and forth about doing this more times than I can count, but here goes:Sixteen months ago, I came to Substack because I was trying to build a platform for my writing. What I found instead was a community I never expected, and a place that has helped me learn to be myself.Now I’m taking another step toward something I want so incredibly much: getting my book out into the world. With that goal in mind, I’ve re
Groundhog Day (opens the original)
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I wrote this several weeks ago, when both of my older boys were getting ready to head to college and so much seemed to be changing at once.Subscribe nowI woke up this morning, well before my alarm, with a jolt. It’s become a familiar way to start the day over the past couple of weeks. Every morning at 4:00 a.m., it’s the same thing: not quite panic or dread, but the unmistakable feeling that something is wrong.The confusing part is that, objectively, absolutely no
What a Clinical Psychologist With a History of Anorexia Thinks About GLP-1s (opens the original)
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Have you noticed that GLP-1s are everywhere?I first learned about them in a professional context. One of my closest friends from graduate school works in eating disorder research, and before the rest of the world was talking about these drugs, she and her colleagues were already thinking about their potential impact far beyond the people they were originally designed to treat.Now a surprising number of people in my life take GLP-1s, including patients, friends, and family members. Some had clear
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