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The Sort, by sex coach and former stylist Sissy Chacon, is devoted to providing inspiration and recommendations around sex, style, shopping, beauty, lifestyle, and taking a positive approach to getting older.
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Sis’ Six: Expanding & Retraining Your Masturbation Style (opens the original)
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I don’t want anyone to get the idea that every approach to sex coaching, or every post about sexology, has to be problem-focused. Sometimes we just want more of a good thing. In either case, good outcomes ahead.The question becomes: Does the way you self-pleasure support the sexual experiences you want to have? If yes, carry on. If not, experiment.The Sort by Sissy Chacon is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscr
Birds, Bees, Flowers & Dreams (opens the original)
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Sis’ Six: Overpacked Edition (opens the original)
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This Labor Day shopping-related post that wasn’t published in time for Labor Day (I took most of the day off and spent it exactly how I wanted: making soup, watching television, and interpretive dancing to Joni Mitchell’s Hejira) and isn’t about Labor Day sales. It is about embracing the ironic, the unexpected, the questionable, the bent, the twisted, the mixed up, the messy, the fuck it, the haphazard, the imperfect, the flipped, screwed up, the stuff that makes no sense, and what all of that c
Sacred Rage and Grief (opens the original)
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Being summoned to Tarzana was already a numinous experience, surely activated by the work I’m doing through the Centre for Applied Jungian Studies where I’ve been engaging with (seemingly) opposing parts of myself. That week I’d been exploring my feral self who is a lot like Pippi Longstocking (disorderly, rebellious, crude, impulsive, kind-hearted, obnoxious, mischievous, and strong). She grows with the aliveness of a wild untamed forest. And there’s also my more cultivated inner companion who
Green Flag: When Men Aren’t Intimidated by Sex Toys (opens the original)
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Up until midlife, I had a few sex toys but they didn’t play a key role in my sex life. I had reliable orgasms with my masturbation style and pretty reliable orgasms with long-term partners — adequate foreplay, enough arousal, and a routine that worked for me — all without using a clitoral vibrator. Visiting sex shops was something fun to do with friends and with long-term partners but I didn’t really have a shopping list to check off. And those visits were very dildo-focused - clitoral stimulati
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