HeyJaredThe Self-Confidence Project
The Self-Confidence Project is a weekly podcast featuring conversations on life, dating, relationships, confidence and motivation. In each episode, your host Kimberly Hill talks candidly about the stuff we all face in life and love.
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Ep#288 - Online Dating Is Destroying Your Confidence (Use It Without Losing Yourself) (opens the original)
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You match with someone lovely, you start to imagine what could be…and then she goes quiet. And somehow, the silence becomes a verdict on you. If online dating has been quietly wearing down your confidence, this one's for you. In this episode, I break down why the apps are so hard on good men, and it genuinely isn't all in your head, and how to use them without losing your sense of who you are. Links and Free Resources: 1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes
Ep#287 - You Haven't Dated in 10-20 Years? Good. Listen to This. (opens the original)
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If it's been a long time since you last dated, let's say ten years, twenty, maybe more, you're probably standing at the edge of a dating world that looks nothing like the one you left, hearing over and over how brutal it is out there. So here's something that might surprise you: those years away can be your single greatest advantage. Not a disadvantage, an edge no twenty-five-year-old can compete with. But I won't just make you feel good about it. That advantage is not automatic. Getting older i
Ep#286 - Do This Before You Date After Divorce (opens the original)
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After a divorce, a lot of men find themselves standing in a quiet house on a Tuesday night with nobody to call and no idea how that happened. This episode is about why your social life shrank after the split, why it wasn't your fault, and why the thing most men reach for to fix it actually makes it harder. We get into the quiet mechanics of how it happens: how one person in a marriage usually becomes the social organizer, why friends drift after a separation, and why reaching out starts to feel
Ep#285 - The Truth About Attracting a High Quality Woman (opens the original)
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You're in good shape. You've got your life together. You're kind, you're steady, you're the man your friends call when something goes wrong, and you still haven't met a woman you were genuinely interested in for years. So you've started to assume the problem is you. In this episode, I want to offer you a different explanation, because in my experience it's usually the right one. It isn't that you're not good enough. It's that nobody can find you. The life you've built, as good as it is, has quie
Ep#284 - 5 Signs She Wants to Date You (and Keep Dating You) (opens the original)
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You've read her last text nine times and you still can't tell: interested, or just polite? After a divorce or a long-term relationship, most men's signal-reading is off in both directions. Some men miss genuine interest that's right in front of them. Others spend months pursuing a woman who was never coming along. In this episode, I walk you through five signs a woman genuinely wants to date you (and keep dating you) including which signs show up before you've even asked her out, and which ones
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