The Payal Perspective
Parenting boys in a patriarchy, dismantling gender roles and norms, and building authentic connections with our kids.
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I never learned to be useful to a man (opens the original)
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The first time we hosted my in laws for dinner after I got married, I made my husband lie and tell them that I cooked the meal. I didn’t. He made the whole thing from scratch. And I feel like that one little lie kind of sums up my whole early marriage. I spent a lot of it trying to prove I was the daughter in law everyone expected me to be. Mind you these expectations weren’t set forward or articulated by my in laws, more so a societal conditioning, how I was raised, who I thought I was supposed
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