HeyJaredThe Becoming You Show with Leah Roling
The Becoming You Show is your weekly gut-check—an unapologetic space where potential gets proven and false identities die. It’s where the old belief that you’re broken gets buried, and the truth rises: you’re not broken. You never were.
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199. Did you get their signature? (opens the original)
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Week one the clutter was in your head. Week two it was in your body. This week it has a face, and it might be somebody sitting at your table this weekend. Here's the claim: unconditional love is what a relationship looks like with the clutter out of it. Love with nothing attached. No terms, no list of things that have to be true first. And most of us are nowhere close to that. Episode 199 goes looking for the conditions. Every one of us carries an unwritten rulebook for how the people we love ou
198. 90 seconds. That's all it takes (opens the original)
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There's a difference between organizing something and getting rid of it. We know that about a garage. Most of us have never once applied it to a feeling. Episode 198 is the second in the clutter series, and it's the heavy one. Leah covers both halves of emotional clutter: the weight you're already carrying, and the weight you refuse to pick up. The first half is the emotions that run quietly in the background for years. Worry. Overwhelm. Frustration. Disappointment. Discouragement. None of them
197. The Sentence that is running your life (opens the original)
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Most people don't lose their life to a catastrophe. They lose it to a sentence. One they made up in about a second, and never went back and checked. Episode 197 kicks off a five-part series on clutter, and we're not starting in your garage. We're starting in your head, because this is the one that runs underneath everything else. Leah walks through the sequence your brain runs on every event, and the space almost nobody was taught to see: the space between what happened and what you decided it m
196. Truth (opens the original)
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Somewhere along the way, vulnerability got confused with visibility. We started believing that sharing is the same as risking, and it's not. You can share everything and risk nothing. In the finale of the August RANT series, Leah breaks down the two fake versions of vulnerability, performed openness and strategic sharing, and gives you the one test that separates them from the real thing: what could you actually lose? Real vulnerability is truth with something at stake, said live, before you kno
195. Necessary (opens the original)
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Leah wrote a whole book called No One Is Coming to Save You, and she still meets people every week who are waiting. Waiting for the apology, the change, the permission, the circumstances to soften. In part three of the August RANT series, Leah takes on the most misunderstood word in personal growth: agency. She clears out the four things people think it means, control, blame, hustle, and positivity, and shows what it actually is: the small, quiet gap between what happens to you and what you do a
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