The Affair Recovery Room
Real talk about affair recovery with insight, hope, and heart. “The Affair Recovery Room” is a podcast for anyone reeling from the impact of infidelity—whether you’ve been betrayed, were unfaithful, or are trying to rebuild a relationship in the aftermath.
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Go FFISHing for What’s Beneath Your Anger (opens the original)
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Anger has a bad reputation. We treat it as the thing to fix: control it, suppress it, or let it out and hope that helps. But anger isn't the problem. It's the announcement that there is one. In this episode, Tim uses the image of a fishing bobber to reframe what anger actually is. When the bobber dips, you don't stare at the bobber — you want to know what's on the line. Anger works the same way, and after betrayal, the thing tugging underneath is almost always something your partner needs to hea
Beyond Stay or Go: Who You Become after Betrayal (opens the original)
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In this episode, I talk with psychotherapist and author Lauren LaRusso about her new book, Beyond Infidelity . Lauren's perspective is both professional and personal: her marriage ended after her husband's affair. Mine ended after I was the one who broke trust. We come at this experience from opposite sides, and that contrast shapes much of our conversation. Lauren makes a claim that may shift how you see your situation: the moment infidelity is revealed, the original version of your relationshi
Bonus: Beyond Infidelity (opens the original)
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This bonus episode is an introduction to Tim Tedder’s upcoming interview with therapist and writer Lauren LaRusso, author of the book Beyond Infidelity: How to Turn the End of Your Relationship into the Beginning of Your Life . In this episode, Tim talks about the book, explains why he recommends it, and plays clips from his conversation with Lauren. LINKS and EXTRAS Episode Page: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcasts/072 Buy Beyond Betrayal on Amazon Read Tim’s review of Beyond Betrayal
The Patterns We Learn: Attachment Styles, Infidelity, and the Road Back (opens the original)
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Long before we could think about it, we learned how close was safe to get. Those patterns (researchers call them attachment styles) quietly shape how we handle conflict, disappointment, and closeness for the rest of our lives. Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved, joins Tim to explain the four attachment styles and how they show up in infidelity: why the dismissive-avoidant pattern carries the highest risk of cheating, why betrayal cuts so deeply for the anxious-preoccupied partner, and why f
Bonus: Free “Good Sex” eBook (opens the original)
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Three conversations. Three very different women. One idea that surfaced in all three: good sex doesn't begin with technique, and it doesn't begin with your partner. It begins with being honest about yourself. In this bonus episode, Tim revisits the three-part series on sexuality — sexual shame with therapist and intimacy coach Jocelyn Silva, sexual pleasure with intimacy coach Linda Landon, and sexual reconnection after betrayal with sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet — and shares an excerpt fr
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