HeyJaredThe Adopted Sexologist
An exploration of the intersection where sexual health, embodiment and adoption come together.
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The hauntings of Black lives (opens the original)
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This is an article written in collaboration with (Anna): Black people are being haunted in ways that extend beyond our own experience of being in the world. Baldwin wrote about the impact of white delusion and how it impacts white consciousness, and described how parts of these delusions are meant to avoid the fact of death and project the fear of death onto Black bodies. <span style="col
The Manosphere: Masculinity, Immigration, (opens the original)
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When we start to believe that our existence has to be justified, something shifts within us, and that same change continues to impact how we show up in the world.It is particularly obvious when I think about the norms and expectations around men and masculinity today. The men I speak with are all exhausted from carrying the heavy shame of being men whocannot provide.Being a man who cannot protect.A man who cannot attract a partner.A man who does not have status.A man who is not progressing.A man
Your Sexual Shadow (opens the original)
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~Written in collaboration with &utm_campaign=scenario&utm_content=">EroPlay~In the world of psychoanalysis, the term ‘shadow’ was coined by psychiatrist Carl Jung (1875-1961), and it refers to the parts of ourselves we reject, suppress, or exile because they don’t fit who we believe we’re allowed to be. Most people assume this means anger, jealousy, greed, or aggression. Yet sexu
I Was Already Doing Race Play (opens the original)
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Some people might say that our experience of personal freedom is partly produced by the world being arranged in our favour, or by our own capacity and power to bend reality around our wishes. Sara Ahmed describes whiteness as a habit. Through repetition, certain bodies become familiar within certain spaces and with time, the space itself begins to feel as though it naturally belongs to those bodies.When this happens, we stop noticing.BDSM spaces are built around consent, healthy negotiation, com
Being the only Black person in Kinky spaces (Part 3) (opens the original)
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~~ In collaboration with EroPlay~~At some point, it became useless to talk about what it means to feel safe in these spaces. We could agree on what it means to be physically safe, to some degree. Knowing where the exits are, who we came with, what we agree to before walking through the door, and, of course, safewords and describing our wishes and expectations around each other’s actions that evening.We ne
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