HeyJaredSupported Sobriety
Supported Sobriety seeks to bring hope, healing, and greater understanding to both men struggling with pornography addiction and women who support someone struggling with addiction.
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Ep. 101 - 4 Things You've Tried That Don't Work (opens the original)
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If you've read every blog post, sat through months of couples therapy, and still can't stop checking his phone at night, you're not broken and you're not doing it wrong. A year ago, a woman I worked with was ready to pack a bag for her mom's house. She was asking her husband a thousand questions and even checking the church iPad. Last week she sent me a message that gave me chills. I'm reading you her message word for word, then walking through the four things almost every woman tries first. The
Ep. 100 - Special Episode With Matt (opens the original)
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For our 100th episode I brought on my husband, Matt. You've heard me tell our story a hundred times; you've almost never heard him tell it. This podcast started in 2021 as the two of us, talking openly about his pornography use and my betrayal for the first time, back when we had all the passion in the world and not one framework. You'll hear what we believed then that we don't believe now, what we got wrong about healing as a couple, and the hardest part of doing this work in public since 2021.
Ep. 99 - Why Porn Isn't His Problem (And Not Yours Either) (opens the original)
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If you've asked yourself a hundred times why he says he'll stop and then doesn't — filters on his phone, check-ins every week, a promise after every relapse — and none of it holds, you're not crazy and he isn't just weak. In eight years, multiple therapists, couples counseling, and every class and book I could get my hands on, nobody ever explained this to me the way I'm going to explain it to you today. Porn isn't actually his problem. There's something underneath it that no one is treating, an
Ep. 98 - 7 Ways You're Controlling Him and Calling It Support (opens the original)
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If you're the one checking his phone, running the weekly check-ins, and keeping track of whether he made it to his meeting — you probably don't call that controlling. You call it supporting him. I did too. For years I was the filters, the check-ins, the accountability partner, the wife who wouldn't leave the house so he'd never be home alone. And I genuinely believed I was being a good wife. I wasn't. It was fear in the driver's seat, and he could feel it — which is exactly why none of it was wo
Ep. 97 - Quick Fixes That Feel Like Healing... But Aren't (Encore) (opens the original)
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If you're constantly checking his phone, jumping straight to couples therapy, or believing that if you just pray hard enough everything will magically get better – you might be slapping a band-aid over a gaping wound. Your brain loves these quick fixes because they feel productive and give you the illusion of control. But here's what nobody's telling you: these band-aids are actually making your wound deeper, and you don't even realize you're bleeding out underneath In this episode, Katie breaks
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