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030: From Roommates to Lovers: Why Desire Disappears & How to Bring It Back with Xanet Pailet (opens the original)
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What happens when the person you love starts to feel more like a roommate than a lover? This week on SIP with Summers , I’m joined by sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats Xanet Pailet for a candid conversation about why desire disappears in long-term relationships and, more importantly, what couples can actually do to bring it back. Xanet knows this subject personally. After spending 26 years in a sexless marriage, she left both her marriage and
029: Am I a Lesbian? Coming Out Later in Life, Desire & Starting Over After 40 (opens the original)
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What happens when your desire starts telling you a completely different story than the life you've built? Sarah Rutledge Fischer came out as a lesbian at 44 after nearly 20 years in a straight-appearing marriage. But her realization didn't happen overnight. For years, Sarah had quietly questioned her sexuality, pushed those thoughts aside, and continued doing what so many women are taught to do: take care of everyone else, follow the expected path, and ignore what her own body was trying to tell
028: The Sex Clock: How Keeping Score Is Killing Your Desire with Dr. Lori Davis (opens the original)
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What happens when one person wants sex more than the other? Mismatched desire is one of the most common struggles couples face, but the problem may not actually be how often you're having sex. It may be what happens when desire, rejection, pressure, fear, and keeping score start taking over the relationship. In this episode of SIP with Summers, Jennifer sits down with Dr. Lori Davis, a board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner and AASECT Certified Sex Counselor who specializes in mismatched desi
027: How to Heal Emotional Wounds, Find Your Purpose & Build Healthier Relationships | Dr. Eleanor Haspel-Portner (opens the original)
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Have you ever looked around and thought, "My life looks successful... so why do I still feel disconnected?" In this episode of Sip with Summers , I'm joined by Dr. Eleanor Haspel-Portner , psychologist, researcher, and creator of Noble Energy Maps®, to explore why so many people feel stuck even when everything appears fine on the outside. We dive into the connection between emotional wounds, self-awareness, relationships, purpose, and the importance of listening to your inner voice instead of si
026: I Had 3 Boyfriends at Once... But This Conversation Is About So Much More | with Cidney G. Green (opens the original)
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What if we've been asking the wrong questions about relationships? This week on SIP with Summers , I sit down with author, entrepreneur, and relationship disruptor Cidney G. Green for one of my favorite conversations yet. Yes, we talk about her experience having three boyfriends at the same time who all knew about each other . But this episode goes much deeper than polyamory. We explore emotional security, jealousy, authenticity, communication, and why so many of us follow relationship rules we'
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