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Single and not Settling is a modern day dating podcast hosted by your new wingwoman, Vanessa Maree! Vanessa Maree talks about all things dating and shares stories from her own dating journey as a 30 something single woman.
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61. Reimagining Connection with Shani Connard (opens the original)
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Is there a better way to date than swiping, apps, awkward first dates… and speed dating in a pub with alcohol involved? I think there has to be! In this episode of Single and Not Settling, Vanessa Maree is joined by Shani Connard, who is doing exactly that — reimagining the way we meet and connect with other people. Shani creates intentional spaces where people can step awayfrom the curated version of themselves we often bring to dating and actually connect as who they are. Think grounding, inte
60. Your Dating Patterns Aren’t Your Personality, They’re a Program with Adrianna Carlesimo (opens the original)
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Have you ever looked at a man and thought, “I KNOW he’s not giving me what I need… but I can’t keep away?” In this episode, Vanessa Maree is joined by clinical hypnotherapist Adrianna Carlesimo to explore the subconscious patterns that can influence who we’re attracted to, what we tolerate and why hot and cold behaviour can sometimes feel so compelling. Together, they unpack self-worth, worthiness wounds, emotional unavailability, breadcrumbs and the difference between knowing what we want consc
59. The Matchmaking update you have been waiting for! (opens the original)
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In this episode, Vanessa Maree shares a little update from her matchmaking journey including what happened when she finally agreed to meet the man she was introduced tothrough Love With Me. After stepping away from the dating apps, Vanessa is exploring different ways to meet people and what it feels like to put yourself out there in a different way. And of course, because this is Vanessa’s dating life… there was an urgent bathroom situation before AND during the date. In this episode: Vanessa’s
58. Reinventing Yourself When Love Hasn't Happened Yet with Ingrid Bayer (opens the original)
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You thought it would have happened by now. You thought you'd meet someone. Fall in love. Get married. Maybe build the life you'd imagined together. Because that's what seemed to happen for everyone else. And now you're in your 40s, still single, looking around wondering... “Why hasn't it happened for me?” But what if your life isn't supposed to wait for that? That's the conversation I had with my latest guest on Single and Not Settling, Ingrid Bayer , author of Not Done Yet – A Journey Back to Y
57. Instead of asking "What are you looking for", ask this instead! (opens the original)
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Are your standards really too much... or have you simply been asking the wrong people to meet them? This week's episode was recorded in my holiday cabin while I was taking a break, wearing no make up and simply being me. I'm sharing a recent dating experience that reminded me of something I've been learning over and over again, my standards aren't too much. After my experience with "Mr Singapore", I knew I wanted to do things differently. Rather than waiting to see how someone showed up, I commu
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