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Emerging as my Authentic self …… mothering through adoption….. a different way!
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Truth and reconciliation day (opens the original)
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Bullying - how patterns repeat- into Nested living systems tm (opens the original)
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Everyone goes through the process of the Androgynous baby! Everyone gets programmed from their parents and environment. If my mother stresses out worrying when things go wrong it directly gets programmed into me in one way or another. if my mother doesn’t pattern interrupt her own programming as she is parenting me it just keeps replicating. Now when I become a mother and I end up getting a flu bug I am initially feeling overwhelmed and frustrated because I am a one women show and it all depends
Bullying through the Androgynous baby tm Model (opens the original)
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By now it might be obvious that I am not talking about solving a bullying problem. I am focusing on the layers that have come up for me about me as her mother interacting with her and her school. More importantly how I am interacting with myself because that creates my experience and how I will show up out there. We have been programmed to believe we need to do this in a certain way and base what we do and say on another’s reaction. That programming comes from generations before us and is replic
Bullying through the predictable structure of thought and iceburgs interacting (opens the original)
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Something occurs out there and bam! A trigger ignites in my body. The stories in my mind follow closely behind. They are there to protect me, so I have chosen to believe. I have access to externally objective data that is happening on the top of my daughter’s iceberg and mine. The rest lies below the surface and what lives there (in the body) will speak (fire off) and I will make a story up about it based on my tiny sliver of how I perceive reality. We are taught it’s real and is reality and nev
Bullying! Let’s run it through the different perceptual filters! (opens the original)
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Because I create my reality, I know that everything that presents is there for my own evolution! That took me a while to own fully. My child experienced bullying at school and it gave me enough to stop and get curious as opposed to staying in making it about another because that’s usually the first layer of it all. <a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!6Y-c!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws
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