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Why One Negative Comment Ruins Your Day (opens the original)
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Ten people tell you the presentation was great. One person emails you afterward and says something dismissive. Which one plays in your head for the next three days? You already know the answer. In this episode, Dr. Aziz shares a hate email he received today, contrasts his current reaction with how the same message would have wrecked him a decade ago, and unpacks what actually changed in between. He walks through why some criticism cuts to the core while other criticism bounces off entirely, and
What 20 Years Of Social Anxiety Actually Felt Like (opens the original)
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This episode is different from most of what Dr. Aziz makes. It's the story of what twenty years of social anxiety actually felt like, told from his own life rather than through clinical examples or composite clients. The moment it began, at age 11, in a new school where he wore the wrong socks and felt himself starting to disappear. The middle school dance where he was having the time of his life until he overheard two kids in the bathroom mocking everyone who was dancing, and walked out having
Are You An Introvert? Or Just Anxious? (opens the original)
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You leave the party, the barbecue, the work mixer. You're exhausted. You've been telling yourself for years that's just how introverts work. Maybe. Or maybe what you've been calling introversion has been doing a different kind of work in your life: holding the underlying anxiety in place by labeling it as personality. In this episode, Dr. Aziz makes a careful distinction. Real introversion exists. But most of what people call being introverted is something else: anxiety wearing the costume of in
The Real Reason You Feel Self-Conscious (opens the original)
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You walk into the meeting. The room is full. The next three minutes turn into a slow-motion nightmare where you can't access your own intelligence or charm. You've called this insecurity and tried to fix it with more confidence. The fix has never quite worked. In this episode, Dr. Aziz explains why self-consciousness isn't actually an insecurity problem. It's a monitoring problem. You're tracking ten variables about yourself at the same time (eye contact, voice tone, blushing, posture, rambling,
Why People Don't Take You Seriously (opens the original)
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You spoke up. You were clear. You told them what you needed and by when. They said yes. Then the deadline came and the thing wasn't there. If you've been getting more direct and watching it still not land, there's a specific reason. Directness is one ingredient. There's a second ingredient almost no one teaches you. In this episode, Dr. Aziz walks through what that missing ingredient is and why it's so uncomfortable for nice people to use. He breaks down the two failure modes most people run (th
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