HeyJaredShady and Safe
Two Friends of 10+ years discuss hot topics. Sometimes Shady, but always creating a safe space.
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14 Relationships Later... What Did He Learn About Love? | Shady and Safe (opens the original)
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14 relationships and situationships?! Yeah… we’ve got some stories. 😂 This week on Shady & Safe , we’re getting into relationships, situationships, toxic exes, embarrassing dating stories, and some of the wildest things we’ve ever done for love. We also get into gay culture and masculinity, crazy rumors people have spread about us, whether $30 is enough for lunch, relationship dealbreakers, posting your partner on social media, marriage vs. freedom, and the oddly specific things we find attracti
They Want Me, But Only for One Night | AJ Mambie Unfiltered (opens the original)
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“They want me, but they don’t really want me—they want me just for one night.” Venezuelan creator AJ Mambie joins Q for an honest, hilarious, and very grown conversation about dating with a public image, open relationships, jealousy, body confidence, masculinity, and judgment within the gay community. AJ also shares his emotional coming-out story, his father’s initial reaction, how his family eventually found its way back to love, and the cultural differences he has experienced between Venezuela
Cheating, Bottom Shaming & Dating Standards (opens the original)
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How many chances should someone get after cheating? In this episode of Shady & Safe, we get into cheating, staying after betrayal, catching lies through an Apple Watch and being cheated on with 12 different people. We also talk about emotional manipulation, dating standards, speed dating, bottom shaming and whether a hierarchy exists among gay men. Plus, we discuss the judgment surrounding a tragic viral Lake County crash and whether consuming constant negativity online is unhealthy. Would you s
Are We Wrong? Jess Hilarious, Streamer University, Cardi B & More (opens the original)
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Q and Brandi are back with another unfiltered episode of the Shady & Safe Podcast. This week, we discuss Trina reportedly requiring promoters to book her husband, Keyshia Cole dating younger men, the “Quiet on the Creek” trend, and Jess Hilarious’ controversial VladTV interview. We also get into ATL Tayh’s prison content, Porsha Williams and Shamea Morton’s friendship fallout, Cardi B defending Stefon Diggs, and the controversy surrounding Streamer University. The celebrity conversations quickly
We Got WAY Too Honest About Dating, Cheating & Relationships (opens the original)
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Robby from the Linkin Wit Robby Podcast joins me for one of my most honest conversations yet. We talk about life after OnlyFans, modern dating, cheating, open relationships, marriage, creator life, mental health, and the mistakes that taught us our biggest lessons. As two Black gay men, we get real about how our experiences have shaped the way we approach love, sex, relationships, and life online. Nothing is off-limits—from dating younger and being friends with an ex to tops and bottoms, relatio
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