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Essays + guided practices for women unlearning conditioning and reclaiming autonomy — in love, relationships, and self-expression — with clarity, humor, and unapologetic honesty.
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Why is women’s pleasure such a threat? (opens the original)
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If you’ve been around for a couple weeks you know that my proximity to publication of Fuhk Your Way (we’re within days!!) has created more than a little tumult in my life - particularly in my family. And as I mentioned in my previous post, I’ve always known that my work would not be well received. And that’s ok. My folks are traditional, conservative (politically and otherwise), generally, on the other side of almost everything I fundamentally believe. I’ve often wondered if our interpersonal st
F*hk Your Way (opens the original)
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If you were around last week, you know that the book that I’m about to publish, F*hk Your Way, has caused quite a rift in my family. And, to be fair, I knew that it would. I come from a very conservative, religious family for whom “sweep it under the rug” was such a well-understood mantra that it was practically embroidered on our throw pillows. <a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" href="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1774963502601-e01846d9570b?crop=entropy&cs=tinysrgb&fit=
Wonderful things are coming! But first some micro-mares. (opens the original)
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F*hk Your Way (opens the original)
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Years and years ago I walked away from a relationship with a man that I considered the love of my life. Ironically, when I walked away I was sure it wasn’t forever. I was sure we’d both figure our shit out and come back together. Like in the rom com movies that I hate-love where the woman finally stands up for herself and her worth, and leaves the Playe… Read more
Connect to yourself (and take down cortisol) with PLEASURE. (opens the original)
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Sex, Love, and the Self is reader-supported. In gratitude for your support, you’ll receive access to the Unruly Women’s Circle: the bad influence you’ve been looking for - weekly journal prompts and real-world ideas to center yourself in your life.</d
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