HeyJaredRGagandeep’s Substack
I’ll be sharing my personal journey — the paths I’ve taken, my successes and failures, and everything in between — in the hope it inspires reflection and connection.
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Why Aren’t Relationships Working Anymore? (opens the original)
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I keep coming across the same question, in different forms.Why aren’t relationships working anymore?Divorce. Fights between couples. People drifting apart after years together.And every time, we go looking for the reason in the same places.Lack of communication. Compatibility. Cheating. Family. Time. Priorities.And most of the time, we land on the easiest answer of all:“It’s his fault.”“It’s her fault.”But underneath all of it, there’s one thing we rarely talk about.How rarely we
You Got What You Wanted. Now What? (opens the original)
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The Question Behind the QuestionWhy can’t you move on?Not from a relationship. From a phase of life. A version of yourself. A feeling you can’t even properly name, but somehow keep trying to get back.You tell yourself, maybe the next thing will fix it.A new relationship. A bigger house. More money. Going back to how things used to be.And then you get it.And somehow, after a while, it doesn’t feel that special anymore.So what are you actually holding onto?The Toy CarI remember the exact weight of
I Think My Husband Is Tired of Me. (opens the original)
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Okay guys… I did it again. And before you say anything — NO, I didn’t do it deliberately this time either. Like always.I hit a car.YES. AGAIN. 😭I was about to open my door, swung it open, and didn’t see the car beside me.And this time, I barely touched it. Like… TINY. You probably wouldn’t even notice it.But of course… I was caught red-handed. AGAIN.The guy was sitting in the driver’s seat when he heard the thud.He didn’t jump out.He jumped across the car — from the driver’s seat to the other si
I Forgot To Live, All Along (opens the original)
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This life is such a hustle…Yes, I said it. We keep trying to make it worth living, says every old brat who has somehow survived long enough to give us life advice. Almost everything we do seems to come from this need to prove something to someone.Prove that we're successful.Prove that we're happy.Prove that we made the right choices.Prove something to the world.But does the world actually care?No.Absolutely not.And yet, we keep proving ourselves until our last breath.I have to wake up early to g
Is It My Mind..... or Me? (opens the original)
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