Relationship 101
The relationship and sexual health the church (and so many other organizations) didn't want you to have.
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Sexual Health, and When Grief Takes Precedence Over Pleasure (opens the original)
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I picked a really difficult week to write about sexual fantasy and eroticism.I had planned to write today about Justin Lehmiller’s fantastic book Tell Me What You Want. In order to understand the intricacies of sexual fantasy, it’s helpful to have a shared definition of fantasy. Lehmiller’s research invites us into the commonality of fantasizing—97% of his 4,000+ person research sample report having fantasies—and the most common themes.I’ll publish that article on Friday rather t
Sexual Fantasy Starts By Asking Yourself, “What Do I Want?” (opens the original)
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Next Tuesday evening, I’m teaching a virtual class with my colleagues at South Shore Sexual Health Center on erotic fantasy. Erotic Fantasy 10/6 at 5:30 ESTThe class starts by asking participants to write out the details from their favorite sexual experience. Later, after describing elements of the science of eroticism and sexual fantasy, I ask participants to write out the details from their favorite sexual fantasy.<di
Five Save the Dates, and an October and November Writing Schedule (opens the original)
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Happy official start to Fall! I invite you to join me for a few professional presentations that I’m offering in October and November. All times are Eastern Time Zone.Tuesday October 6, 5:30-8:30 pm. Erotic Fantasy (in conjunction with South Shore Sexual Health Center). This is one of my favorite presentations that I do with South Shore Sexual. It’s a blend of geeking out on the research of sexual fantasy and eroticism
A Honeymoon Without the Pressure to Have a Honeymoon (opens the original)
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The majority of my clients knew that I would be gone for three weeks on my Icelandic honeymoon.During my first week back at work, many of them were kind enough to ask how the trip went.Almost all of them asked:“Did you see the Northern Lights?”The short answer is No. Although I did sneak this picture from the planetarium at the Perlan Museum before w
We Had a Great Honeymoon... (opens the original)
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In 2021, after a stunning month-long rendezvous with the Camino de Santiago, Julia and I established a goal of taking a month off each summer to travel and hike.We’ve met our goal for the last five summers. Sort of.In 2023, we hiked the Alpe Adria, a 500+ mile jaunt from the base camp of the highest peak in Austria, through eastern Austria, western Slovenia, and northeastern Italy (Trieste, to be specific). We took a month off from clients during the summers of 2022, 2024, and 2025. But all of t
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