HeyJaredRealm of Her
Unlearn patriarchy (hierarchy, violence, competition) and start building matriarchy (equality, care, cooperation). Driven by science and a bit of rage.
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Want to get nerdy about burying patriarchy and building matriarchy? (opens the original)
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Seven months ago today I published my first reading list online, and what a hit! 300 hearts is quite the achievement on Substack. I published the list pretty early on in my matriarchy journey, coming from a background in psychological science. The list included books that helped to inform my understanding of patriarchal problems and matriarchal solutions from different angles, though mostly a white-centric lens, I later realised.I noted then, and maintain now, that I’m not a world-leading expert
Matriarchy will fail ... (opens the original)
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That’s what men often tell me. So, let me explain a few things about empathy and boundaries, and why these men are wrong.<img alt="A wooden block spelling the word empathhy on a table" class="sizing-normal" height="2666" src="https
The economics of patriarchy and matriarchy (opens the original)
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Inner resilience is not a solo project (opens the original)
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I don’t know about you, but I’ve needed a lot of inner resilience lately. It’s a lot for the body and mind to see or read about atrocity after atrocity, like the horrifying reports of violence from the Epstein files, rape academies, genocide in Palestine and Congo. Then add the existential threats to life from the climate catastrophe, global wars, and AI superintelligence.And that’s just on the news and social media. I’ve got stuff going on in my personal life that has been testing my limits. I
Violence-free cultures exist (opens the original)
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I’ve been sharing data about the scale of physical and sexual violence against women and children. The statistics are difficult to stomach.1 in 5 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience sexual violence before the age of 18. 1 in 4 children experience physical abuse globally. 1 in 3 women experience sexual or physical abuse by an intimate partner.These are not… Read more
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