HeyJaredRarely Thriving
Rarely Thriving is a brutally honest search for life's glimmers by journalist and neurodivergent/disabled mum, Steph Cullen.
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Rarely Thriving: Updates. (opens the original)
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Trading Survival Mode For Actual Rest (opens the original)
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Caveat note added 24/09/2026: I wrote this essay earlier this week, before my hormones did their crazy dance and upturned my life in a day. Before pain—and my brain, tried to obliterate any ounce of positivity. I am currently riding the wave of hormone sensitivity whilst in bed with a body that feels like it's a felled tree. There are no words below that can counter how I feel right now, today! Migraine and FND have infected my speech and so there is no voiceover for this article. I also cannot
Why Chronic Illness Reminds Me of An Abusive Relationship (opens the original)
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I have personally been in two abusive relationships. I've also been married to my soul mate for six years, together for twelve. He is warm, and kind and docile. I am safe. But I am disabled. My first ‘proper’ boyfriend and I had a very long and extremely volatile relationship. I moved out of home when I was seventeen on the premise of happily ever after, but I was young, and he was not happy, not ever. After a while, neither was I. I was sixteen when we met; he was twenty-one. We were together f
I'm Rarely Thriving When...My Ambition’s Writing Cheques That My Body Cannot Cash (opens the original)
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“I’m really my own worst enemy,” says 42-year-old from Manchester. “I have ME, Fibromyalgia and Endometriosis, but I still want to do everything.”Kelly, who is a mum of three and has been married to her husband, Paul, for 22 years, tells me, “At seventeen I went from fit and healthy one minute to never feeling well the next”. Like so many women with chronic health conditions, Kelly feels as though she visited a “million doctors” only to come away with generic advice for managing stress, which le
I Asked My Family To Each Describe Me in Three Words. This is What They Said... (opens the original)
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Hi Readers,I began writing a new introductory post to my Substack page and as I was doing so the usual words: mum, wife, journalist, loser… all came into my head with their perfunctory definitions; but I realised none of these words actually explain who I am. As a person. Sure, journalist tells you I'm a writer but it only defines one kind, I am not only one kind of writer, I am all of them, messily bundled and without niche. Mum tells you I have children, and wife tells you I'm married, but wha
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