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Newsletter · By Sam Jolman · Official site

Indexed issues, last 90 days
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Sep 30, 2026
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Jul 5, 2026

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  1. Issue · Sep 30, 2026

    Conflict as Emotional Intimacy (opens the original)

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    A few months ago, my wife and I returned to marriage therapy. No crisis pushed us into it, thank God. But with bigger kids living bigger lives, our more demanding schedule has devoured our space for connection. And that missed connection made it easier to misunderstand each other, take offense, and fall into conflict. We needed help. Call it roommate-syndrome prevention. While surviving life, we don’t want to just survive each other.As a therapist myself, I believe in smoking what I sell. I don’

  2. Issue · Sep 5, 2026

    Conversation: Captain M and the Art of Self Soothing (opens the original)

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    Good people,If you were with us last fall, you probably recognized some of this article. We talked a lot about self soothing in our last conversation on masturbation (about this article). That discussion captured something that just seemed too important not to share with the larger community. That’s why I wrote it. Because we did cover it some already, … Read more

  3. Issue · Sep 1, 2026

    Captain M and the Art of Self Soothing (opens the original)

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    This is Part 2 in a series. Read Part 1 here. “I have made myself calm and content like a young child in its mother’s arms. Deep down inside me, I am as content as a young child.” Psalm 131:2 NIRVWhen I was in college, some friends and I kept each other accountable to sexual purity. We even created an insider code we thought kept our conversations private. “How are you doing with Captain M?” we asked. Seriously that’s what we called it. I cringe now because it was

  4. Issue · Aug 9, 2026

    Conversation: How Old Are You Really? (opens the original)

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    Good people,What is your relationship with time as a creature? I am curious what it’s like to think of your life like rings of a tree rather than miles on a road. That concept may not be new or all that revolutionary. But I hope it’s given you a chance this week to sit closer to lost parts of you. I want to hear all about this when we meet tomorrow nigh… Read more

  5. Issue · Jul 31, 2026

    How Old Are You Really? (opens the original)

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    Hello to you from the melty middle of summer. This last month, I escaped to the Colorado mountains with my family. It was a great gift to bask in beauty and cool mountain breeze again. I also attended a week long counselor training on EMDR. To those unfamiliar, it’s a sorta-odd therapy technique with not-so-weird science to back it up. Have you ever felt better after thinking through something while walking? Or you know how when you dream your eyes flit back and forth as your brain makes stories

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