HeyJaredProject Love
Stop falling for the wrong people. Learn to attract love that lasts — and keep it. Project Love offers practical tools, powerful insights, and real stories to help you build healthier, lasting relationships.
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3 Questions to ask before you fall in love (opens the original)
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We spend so much energy at the start of a relationship asking the wrong questions. We focus on things like: Is there chemistry? Do we like the same things? Do I feel butterflies? (I’m a big believer that butterflies are completely deceptive, by the way.)We’ve been so conditioned by films and books to think this way. And although chemistry is great, it’s not the foundation of a healthy long-term relationship.The most fulfilling relationships I’ve seen haven’t been the ones with more spark than ot
We haven't gotten better at love. We've just gotten faster at leaving. (opens the original)
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It’s 11pm, and you’ve just had the same disagreement with your partner again. You decide to type the whole thing into ChatGPT, describing the situation that happened, and it agrees with you. In the end, you feel certain you were right, and your partner was in the wrong.But you didn’t describe your partner. You described your version of them and that specific scenario (from your own perspective, nevertheless!).And AI is remarkably good at taking our side. Which is important to remember, because m
Why we settle for the bare minimum in love (opens the original)
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They text you back sometimes, but not immediately. They loosely make plans. They let you know they just got back in town, but don’t necessarily follow up with much else. Maybe they text or call at the end of a busy day, asking to get together last minute. Perhaps they make plans for tomorrow, but never include you in anything on the horizon over the next few weeks.In other words, they’re doing the bare minimum in terms of effort, and yet you’re still hooked.When you talk to them for a few minute
Love asks for more letting go than expected (opens the original)
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When I met my partner for the first time, we had a deep, four-hour conversation that ended with him not taking my phone number.To me, it was incredibly bizarre because the connection felt clear. To him, it was completely normal. He felt the connection’s strength too. But he was taking the carriage, not the speed train, as he likes to say.Had I been rigid about how that first interaction was supposed to go, I might have missed out on the most beautiful love story.When it comes to life, love, and
Nobody falls in love with the edited version of you (opens the original)
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I used to think that being the person who always went with the flow would make me more lovable. I suppressed my complaints, strong opinions, and boundaries to keep the peace. I thought that if I minimized friction, it would guarantee that they’d stay; I believed an easy relationship meant it was a good one.It went further than that, though. I also studied the person in front of me and became more of who I thought they wanted. It wasn't always conscious. Once, someone told me his ex was high-main
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