HeyJaredProbably Oversharing
It’s casual. It’s honest. It’s run-on sentences. It’s a little bit like a diary (except instead of locking it up, I send it straight to your inbox). Some weeks, it’s heartbreak. Some weeks, it’s unsolicited dating advice. Every week, it’s me oversharing.
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- Sep 29, 2026
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boy sober october: what am i supposed to do without a crush? (opens the original)
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why is dating so much guesswork? (opens the original)
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men need to ask women more questions on dates (opens the original)
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i stopped doomscrolling and became interesting again (opens the original)
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A little note: All of my essays are free to read when they’re published and stay that way for two months before becoming paid-only. If you’d like to support my writing and keep access to the archive, paid subscriptions are $5/month or $50/year. Thanks for being here I’ve stopped doom-scrolling and, as much as it pains me to admit this as a former social media manager, started having thoughts again.I’m on deadline for a new project and in order to hit it I have to write 942 words 5 days per week.
how do you write about love without exploiting it? (opens the original)
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“What do you think your social media will look like once you’re in a relationship?” he asked over drinks.I laughed nervously and gave him some version of, “I don’t really know yet. But different, I’m sure.”It’s a question I’ve been asked a few times—usually not on first dates, more like third—so you’d think I’d have an answer down pat by now. Well, I’m here to admit that I still don’t have the slightest clue.For the past four years, my career has unintentionally followed the trajectory of my lov
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