HeyJaredOn the Contrary
What happens when you take a retired City Girl, a happily married comedian, a certified Sexologist and the ultimate bachelor and give them all microphones? On The Contrary is a weekly podcast presented by Onsite.
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Are You Too Old For The Club? (opens the original)
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Season 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that sounds lighthearted but actually hits a lot differently the older you get: how do you define fun? And does that definition have an expiration
Does Long Term Mean Low Desire (opens the original)
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Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship. Does desire naturally decline over time? If you find yourself curious about something different, does that make you a bad partner or just an
Women Don’t Lose Friends, They Outgrow Them (opens the original)
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The narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can’t trust each other? What does it actually take to build a friendship between women that lasts? And is it really that women lose friends or that
Bonnets & Durags Outside: Comfort or Careless? | On the Contrary (opens the original)
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Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cultural norm, a comfort thing, or has it become an excuse to stop caring about how we show up in public?
Why Is It So Hard For Men To Tell The Truth? | On the Contrary (opens the original)
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Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the one conversation most people avoid: why is it so hard for men to just tell the truth? Is it avoidance? Is it conditioning? Or have some women actually created an environment where lying feels safer than ho
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