HeyJaredOk, Todi
a round-up of everything I am consuming with some sprinkles of personal insights and failings.
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- Sep 28, 2026
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- Jul 12, 2026
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Daddy’s Tired (opens the original)
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had a very nuanced and serious conversation with a queer friend who also dates across genders and dug into how much of attraction to men can boil down to the fact that it’s simply horny to not have to do anything and get hand held through the misery that is dating. she said to be involved with women can often mean “having to be daddy” and, in defense of one of the wildest ONS w/ a man with an air bed story i’ve ever heard, “daddy’s tired.” my friends contain multitudes. I am about to be a mf glo
a year in brooklyn & a bird parade (opens the original)
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It has been just over a year since moving to New York and just under a year since I turned 34. Until age 34, I reported vocally and often that I liked aging because in adulthood I’ve liked every year more than the previous. Not anymore! This year was so hard. I’m compelled to say something sarcastic or playful but what is most true is it was just so hard. I remember september 2025 very clearly - I was a few weeks into a big new chapter, I felt so much freedom to explore and figure things out and
Ketamine and Horizontal Stripes (opens the original)
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“How’s your family?”The other day Keaves said “I just burst out laughing thinking about how if someone asked me how my family was doing my answer today would be pretty good - one’s doing ketamine and one saw a medium.” Cavan is laughing so hard and SO deeply embarrassed by our bullshit.Doyle the medium is not my story to tell but let’s just say I’ve never talked more about consciousness, what messages we need to hear and from whom, what happens after we die, and what opens up when we open up to
Mountains and/of Grief (opens the original)
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What’s Holding You BackI have been looking forward to this - being alone, having a night to myself, figuring out what I want to write about, relaxing into the practice - for weeks! About 3 weeks ago I left for my big trip ™️ and since getting back on the 7th, this has been my first night to myself, reserved well in advance for this vision of self-care via processing and creating and reflecting on all the places I have been and loved over the last month.Instead, I woke up hungover, my mom left th
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