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Chill vlog #66: why my boyfriends have to lie to me (opens the original)
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In today’s vlog: Why Peter and Dan deliberately tell us earlier times because Joel and I are terrible at time management Why I’m completely okay with those little white lies if it means we actually arrive somewhere on time Going to a music festival that we personally really didn’t enjoy — even though some of our friends loved it Drinking possibly the strongest, darkest black coffee we’ve ever seen and talking about caffeine, sugar and how differently our bodies react to them
Chill vlog #65: why having 3 boyfriends actually make life easier (opens the original)
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In today’s vlog: Realising how differently I pair with each of my three boyfriends Why having more partners can mean having more pillars of support How we naturally split up, help each other and balance each other’s energy What each trip together teaches me about relationships beyond just two people
Chill vlog #64: why I don’t want my friends to buy our clothing brand (opens the original)
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In today’s vlog: Why I don’t want friends buying Santai State just to support me Finishing our first proper scripted skit and figuring out the next episodes Packing for our trip to reunite with our other two boyfriends — and the reality of long distance Trying meditation instead of pushing through exhaustion and realizing I need new strategies for different outcomes
Chill vlog #63: trying to stop wasting time just to save money (opens the original)
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In today’s vlog: Filming our first Modern Family-style skit for Santai State Why we’re starting to value time and mental energy more than saving every dollar What burnout, ADHD and diagnosis have taught me about working differently Preparing Santai State for a possible 11.11 launch and figuring out how our content fits the brand
Chill vlog #62: Peter's mood finally drops (opens the original)
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In today’s vlog: Peter notices his energy dropping early — one of the biggest changes since getting his diagnosis Why I’m learning to take over the chores and look after him instead of getting frustrated Trying a Modern Family-style skit format for Santai State and finally understanding creative “flow” Reflecting on luxury fashion, status symbols and why different things bring different people joy
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