HeyJaredNot a Girl, not yet a Woman
Witty commentaries on navigating adulthood, dating, and self-identity. All with a pinch of "should I even be sharing this online?".
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At 22, I Thought Something Was Seriously Wrong With Me (opens the original)
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I distinctly remember calling my mom from my Amsterdam studio one evening in 2019 and telling her I thought friendships just weren’t for me.I had gone through my fair share of friend disappointments and break-ups, and had concluded that “my people” didn’t exist. Nobody that took friendships as seriously as me, nobody that felt things as deeply as me, nobody that liked me as much as I liked them.Thanks for reading Selin's Social Hub! Subscribe for free to receive new pos
Welcome to Selin‘s Social Hub! (opens the original)
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Hey Substack, it’s been a while! A lot has changed since I last published an article here – including what I spend most of my time thinking and talking about.After 12 years of creating content I started a completely new IG and TikTok account in June where I talk about connection, friendship, belonging, and our (sometimes strange) modern social lives. It unexpectedly grew to over 40k followers across both platforms.<a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/f
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