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A Newsletter about personal style, getting dressed (and how it is a form of self-care), and small essays about my life. I'm here to help you get dressed, feel great, and make shopping for the pieces that you need easy.
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Office Outfit Survival Guide: Work Conference Season (opens the original)
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For many, mid September through early November is conference/meeting/planning season. It means more travel, more in-person time, and more days where you’ll be in meetings all day and then go straight into something else at night. I’ve head from a number of readers as they plan what to wear and pack for upcoming conferences, congresses and multi-day meetings, and so, today, we tackle — what to wear (and pack!) for a work conference (or a work trip / event of any kind), AND how to also wear those
How to Actually Get Dressed Everyday (opens the original)
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I get dressed every day (okay, mostly everyday). It’s a habit, a ritual, a deeply engrained part of my routine. If I don’t, I feel off. It sets the tone for the day (or hours) ahead. Last month, when I was in Italy for work, the “main event” of my trip was a big workshop with leaders from multiple markets across the globe. I hadn’t met many of the participants in person before, the group had never been in a room all toge
We need to talk about your shoes (opens the original)
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Today, I want to talk about shoes. But, before we talk about shoes, I am legally obligated to (expose my age) and confess that anytime someone talks about shoes/says the word shoes/asks about shoes, I am thinking about this song. If I get a glazed look in my eyes, know that I’m picturing this specifically: <a class="image-link image2" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Mo6o!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F
On Work (and Life) No. 3 - How to Actually Enjoy Work Travel (opens the original)
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Work travel has been a theme throughout my career. In my first role, I was a “road warrior.” At the time, traveling weekly felt grown up, exciting and glamorous. The joke was on me because I spent the first 2 years of that job traveling to Des Plaines, IL, which was not exciting, nor glamorous (no shade to Des Plaines!!!!) I realized pretty quickly that Monday-Thursday on the road, working endlessly, eating indulgent dinners out with co-workers, staying up late and (often) drinking too much was
I'm sorry, but I just can't talk about fall (opens the original)
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A beloved account that I follow on Instagram posted about the Net-A-Porter sale last week, sharing a number of VERY GOOD fall finds. The moment I had a few seconds to spare, I navigated to the site, set my filters, started scrolling, opening tabs, considering, thinking. And then, all of a sudden, I realized, holy shit August just started. It’s summer! High summer! I spend literal hours dreaming and counting down to this part of the year when it’s freezing in the middle of February. I have clothe
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