HeyJaredNever give up. Thrive instead if they kick you down.
child abuse, later sexual molesation. deeply estranged family. Intergenerational trauma. projections and scapegoating, in short the emotinal invalidation to a lvel of cruelty that overwhelming denial in a dysfuctional fmail results in.
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people who struggle financially are not who many think they are (opens the original)
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I asked ai a question Im glad I did poor people. not homeless just poor ..even if lowr middle class and getting by are stigmatised by people especially those who have never had to experience real financial hardship and they then assume they will be solicited for money if a lowr midele call person they know has an emergency ...so they avoid themAi s ANSWER …i tthe assumption that lower-middle-class or low-income individuals will immediately beg for money during an emergency is a defensive, classi
Part 1 Emotional trauma from financial fraud and the taboo of anger (opens the original)
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In south africa medical aid is too expensive for 15% of population except including mem and so i had to pay for my recen operation myself using all my funds that were meant to sustain an income. all was left wih was business averdraft ie no my money which was back. almost 2 weeks ago all of it ,,about the same huge sum as my operations was lifted by social enginerring fraud 3 months ago my stepmothere how had returned 50 years back to her hom country died. my brother went with her and my father
recovery 4 weeks after my umblical hernia op (opens the original)
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Its really tough ...please think kindly of me Like a seesaw up and down I’ve realized I think I simply cant sit ...that what puts pressure on the abdominal severed and bruised nerve and tissue rhe most. I can until about 11 am some days and then if i have to work too much I get knocked for 6 Anyway like I said before its in the situations that push one against the wall ....one has to find more kindness to oneself . 4 weeks now and such slow intermittent improvement I have read a lot about it ...
to my kind friends following my op recovery (opens the original)
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There must be so many undergoing post operation recovery... and its so misunderstood .. I dont think trying to explaining is a good idea .but here goes hopefully this is a better attemptPerhaps if will help others both who have had a hernia op and who have friends or family.thsy do ... each op for each person is different dont compare them ..but for me after 2 weeks ..the only pain free times I have are when I dont clean do t work dont sit at my desk. Drive as little as possible..to shop .and do
"pain what pain ? suck it up."..... yeah right. (opens the original)
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I had a umbilical hernia operation 2 weeks back yes its excutioning 2 weeks after ..but here the things ..so much of the pain is the isolation and emotional this is how i feel tonight..im in extreme pain at the moment and have been for 2 weeks now from this operartion ..its very isolating ,, but maybe whats worse was a long diatribe fomr somone last week (on facebook when i expessed that the first 4 days noone cheked on on me after the op and how i felt about it ) who ive now removed about how i
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