Messy Mondays
Shame-free conversations about relationships, sex, identity, and mental health, through pop culture and lived experience. Weekly essays, live streams, and community.
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I’m Not the Bad Person My Mother Made Me Out to Be (opens the original)
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Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app.Get more from Brandon Kyle Goodman in the Substack appAvailable for iOS and Android</di
I Should Hate My Father: But I Feel Nothing (opens the original)
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Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app.Get more from Brandon Kyle Goodman in the Substack appAvailable for iOS and Android</di
Open Relationships 101 (opens the original)
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The Friendship Betrayal Nobody Warns You About (opens the original)
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The Emotional Cost of Polyamory with sexologist Shan Boodram (opens the original)
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Baby, it’s our season two finale and we are going out with a MESS!First, one of my besties, Devere Rogers and I sit down to discuss the gayness of The Sopranos, the fact that his apartment has STAIRS, and what makes a true Beyoncé fan. It’s a chaotic, educational, and beautifully messy kickoff in a special edition of “Tell Me Something Devere!”Then Shan Boodram, certified sexologist, bestselling author, and host of Lovers by Shan — joins me for a conversation about the emotional cost of polyamor
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