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From Burnout to living a Soft Life (opens the original)
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If you've been following me for a while, you'll know that until 2025, I chronically burned out every six months. It took me years to recognise the behavioural loop I kept repeating — until my last burnout was so severe that I was on sick leave for nine months, and had to quit my job afterwards. (You can read the full story here.)Eventually, I realised something had to change. I couldn’t keep moving the way I used to — looking for quick fixes, telling myself it’ll be fine. This
The Recipe to Happiness (opens the original)
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When I think back five years ago, I remember being unsatisfied with where I was at in life. Mentally. Physically. Spiritually. I wanted to build my business, but I didn’t have the resources (at least I thought so). I wanted to move to another city, but I didn’t know where to go. And I wanted to change my physique, but I was stuck being skinny fat.Now, looking back, a lot has changed. Thank god. But one thing has remained the same since childhood, until recently…From abandonment to abundanceA few
You Don't Need to Be Everything to Be Someone in Your Space (opens the original)
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When I was driving in the car this week and listened to music that I have only listened to with the visuals so far, I noticed something.Since I am a very visual person, visuals and aesthetics play a huge role in my life.So what I realized in this moment, when I listened to these songs, was that their effect and me liking these songs had more to do with the visuals than with the actual song.Which led me to the following thought process:There are artists that are really big and successful and they
What I Didn't See Coming at Thirty (opens the original)
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Since I came home for my thirtieth birthday — back from Hamburg, back to my parents — I’ve noticed some shifts. Living alone for the first time in my life has taught me things I wasn’t able to understand before. Why we, as humans, feel the urge to date. Why we feel the urge to go out and make new friends. Why we chase connection at all.We are wired for it. We need to feel seen, loved, appreciated. We need a purpose, or we drift and find ourselves empty, untethered, lost.I’ve been single for four
On Turning 30 (opens the original)
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In a week, I turn 30. It feels strange — and at the same time, entirely right. Not a dramatic before-and-after, but the quiet click of a door closing behind me and a new one opening ahead: a new decade, a new chapter.I made the most of my twenties, I think. I went through heartbreaks and identity crises. I burned out. I lived through depression and an eating disorder. I had more fun than I can count, made friends, lost friends, and — slowly, imperfectly — healed. I learned a lot about myself and
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