HeyJaredLove, Brie
Dating & relationship writer in her 40s. Gives great advice, rarely takes her own.
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i think i like my boobs better now (opens the original)
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I’m going to talk about breasts for a hot minute, so hold on.Not to get all Nora Ephron on you, but I’m small-chested. Always have been. I never thought much about it before. Once I knew my bra size — 34A — that number sort of became part of my life, like my social insurance number and childhood phone number. A number that became a part of me, and not one I’ll soon forget.Subscribe nowI know men get all bent out of shape about breasts (geez, the way you guys go straight for
voice #2: estrogen patches and should i go to a singles trivia night? (opens the original)
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My second voice note. Update on whats going on with me lately…wearing an estrogen patch! experiencing writer’s blockwanting a guy to fix around my house! debating whether i should go to a single’s trivia night revealing that i once appeared on a pop culture trivia game show!Subscribe now<a class="image-link image2 is-viewabl
how to date an older woman, according to an older woman (opens the original)
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Dear younger guys: I’m about to change your life.This is what I have on my dating profile.Joke. LOL.I don’t. But I should.Because I’ve been attracting younger men like Madonna since I turned 40. (I’ve written about it here, here, and also here.)I didn’t go looking f
i don’t want to casually date anymore (opens the original)
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I’ve spent the weekend crying over a man who I knew I was dating “casually” and I don’t even know what casual means anymore, because what I feel now is anything but casual. I had this wonderful man in my life. It felt nice to have a man in my life.At first I was a bit unsure of him because he wasn’t the type of guy I usually go for. He came in with a little knapsack of snacks and a board game and he brought that to our first date, and he was soft-spoken and he wore these little funky glasses. I
how to make midlife hot and sexy (opens the original)
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First off: am I THE AUTHORITY who knows how to make midlife hot and sexy?No. Because being hot and sexy is personal and subjective. A cozy pair of PJs is as sexy as someone’s lacy lingerie. And also… sexy and hot doesn’t just pertain to the obvious — SEX.To me, sexy and hot means… feeling your best. Yes, looking your best too (because that’s not vain, and it’s okay to want to look your best. It’s called owning a mirror.). In part, it means, like Esther Perel says, eroticizing your life.What turn
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