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Lessons of a well-lived, well-loved, and well-f*cked life.

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  1. Issue · Sep 10, 2026

    Sisterhood Is the Greatest Love Story a Woman Will Ever Have (opens the original)

    Excerpt · Positive tone

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    The greatest love story a woman may ever have is not necessarily the one that ends in marriage. It is the love story of being witnessed, held, and loved by other women—and discovering that you do not have to become smaller, prettier, easier, quieter, or more palatable to belong.Sisterhood is the place where a woman learns that connection can survive her truth. I don’t think we talk enough about how profound that is.For so many women, intimacy with other women is tangled with old comparison, comp

  2. Issue · Jul 17, 2026

    I Had to Let Our Relationship Die Inside of Me (opens the original)

    Excerpt · Critical tone

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    We didn’t have sex for almost a year and a half.<img alt="" class="sizing-normal" height="1092" src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!wsF7!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpubl

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