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Joy First®

Discover why and how to put joy first in a world that rewards hustle over happiness. This bi-weekly show is for workaholics, founders, perfectionists and parents…the hardworking humans who struggle to find, choose or share joy because they are just so damn busy…

Podcast · By J.Nichole Smith · English · Official site

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Sep 16, 2026
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  1. Episode · Sep 16, 2026

    A couple decades chasing Freedom... then I chose Roots (and kids) (opens the original)

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    Kids, roots, and the joy first choices that don't seem to add up on paper. I'm recording this one from my bed, surrounded by the dog, the laundry and my daughter's panda, because (as usual) I'm navigating chaos: the floors are being replaced and there's nowhere quiet left in the house. Which, as usual, seems exactly right for exploring Joy First Decision #7: the decision to stop chasing freedom, put down roots... and have kids. In the last episode I was gleefully drifting around Europe, taking s

  2. Episode · Sep 2, 2026

    I'd Never Had a Gap Year. So I Took One at 35 (opens the original)

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    I lost my dog. I rented out the house. I tackled a mountain of adulting to finally live the freedom I'd built. And it all started with one small tweak to my calendar. I will never forget standing in a tiny grocery store in Lake Como, Italy... holding a lemon almost as big as my hand with the leaves still on, and realizing this wasn't a holiday. It was my actual life. I would I have posted those lemons on instagram, but what you wouldn't fave seen there, is what it actually took to finally be sta

  3. Episode · Aug 19, 2026

    Last Minute Launch Pivot (that became a full-on rebellion) (opens the original)

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    This joy first decision is jumping the queue in the top ten because it’s happening right now, and it’s massive. As you may know, in this season I’ve been sharing the top ten joy first decisions of my life in a nice orderly chronological countdown, and then yesterday happened and had to through out the plan and have this conversation instead. So, totally out of order, this is joy first decision #5, arriving early and slightly out of breath, with my friend Nicole Begley. Not that many weeks ago I

  4. Episode · Aug 5, 2026

    My big fat £40,000 joy first mistake (opens the original)

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    When the dream I had fought for became the dread I couldn't escape... and decision I dreaded unlocked the joy I'd been looking for all along. I finally opened the shop I'd wanted for a decade: A photography studio and pet boutique two minutes from my front door, in beautiful Southwest London. I signed a ten-year lease and invested £40,000 pounds in the business (most of which was spent on renovating the derelict space), and I named it 'Little & Large' after my Great Dane and French bulldog. It t

  5. Episode · Jul 22, 2026

    Why I Left Mr. 8 out of 10 (opens the original)

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    At 28 I had two businesses, an engagement ring, and a box of save the dates I could not bring myself to send. My fiancé was a genuinely nice guy. We had a solid 8/10 life: there was no, drama, no red flags, and we were comfortable... which I guess is what made it so hard to explain why I was leaving. Welcome to #2 number in our series on the Top 10 joy first decisions I've made. It's the story of why I called-off an engagement, packed-up and moved from Seattle to a L.A. and wrote a very importan

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