HeyJaredIt's Not Me, It's You
Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style.
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Plenty of Fish in the Sea, but Where They At Tho? (opens the original)
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They keep saying there are plenty of fish in the sea… okay, but WHERE THEY AT THO? 🎣😭 This episode, we’re trying to make sense of yet another mystery of modern dating: why start a conversation, show interest, exchange numbers, talk for days… and then suddenly disappear? Like, what was the assignment here? 😂 We get into whether dating apps are actually helping people find love or if they’ve basically become a marketplace for hookups, situationships, and pen pals who never intend on meeting. We al
Play to Win: Dating, Self-Love & Finding Your Person (opens the original)
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You gotta play to win. 🎙️❤️ This week, we’re joined by Natasha for a conversation that keeps coming back to one thing: the relationship you have with yourself. Because before you can figure out who you want to date, what you want from a relationship, or whether someone is actually right for you… you probably need to know yourself first. We get into why knowing and loving yourself can keep you from settling , why sometimes the best relationships start as friendships, and what it really means to f
WTF is Modern Dating? (opens the original)
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WTF Is Modern Dating? 🤦♂️💘 Seriously... what is going on out here? In this episode, we're unpacking the chaos that is modern dating. From ghosting and mixed signals to situationships, dating apps, "soft launching," breadcrumbing, and all the unspoken rules nobody asked for, we're trying to make sense of a dating world that somehow gets more confusing every year. We share our own experiences, laugh at the absurdity of it all, debate whether today's dating culture is helping or hurting us, and as
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