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I’m Hakima, and I write about modern dating, male & female behavior, and how people emotionally respond to each other, so you stop guessing and start understanding.
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i've been praying to the spirit of michael jackson lately (opens the original)
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A month ago, at 2:47 in the morning, I found myself kneeling beside my bed thanking Michael Jackson for restoring my faith in men.Yes, I’m dead serious.I watched the movie about his life. If you haven’t yet, I recommend it. Like most people, I thought I knew Michael Jackson. I knew the songs, the moonwalk, the genius. I knew the headlines, the scandals,… Read more
a friend accused me of unconsciously sabotaging other women's marriages (opens the original)
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I didn’t plan to become a case study in mating suppression. All I did was share a reel on my Instagram story, where a bride throws her bouquet, and the crowd of women around her collectively steps back and lets it hit the floor — the opposite of the tradition where every woman rushes to catch it and supposedly get married next. One of my male friends wa… Read more
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