In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex
The no-bullshit sex and relationship podcast where sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) says everything you're too afraid to.Stop having mediocre sex and level up your game!🎧 New episodes every week.
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Having Sex or Performing It: Pleasure, Body Image & Sex Trends (ft. Jill Lissner) (opens the original)
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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator Jill Lissner, aka @sexedprincesss, forconversation about performative sex, pleasure, body image, consent, communication, and the weird sex trends taking over the internet. Topics covered: Performative sex and what it means Pleasure vs. performance Authentic/non-performative sex Gendered expectations around appearance Penis size, erections and stamina Moaning and performing sounds Staying quiet because of shame or expectations S
Rough Sex, Kink, Fantasies & What Women Really Want (ft. Small Hands) (opens the original)
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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with Small Hands (Aaron Thompson) to talk about what really creates sexual attraction, the difference between confidence and competence, rough sex, kink, consent, boundaries, and the fantasies people don't always know how to talk about. In this episode: Non-sexual turn-ons and how they become sexual turn-ons Hands, feet, scent and other physical turn-ons Acts of service, chores, cleaning and thoughtfulness as turn ons Appreciation, validati
Pt. 2 - I Asked a Butt Surgeon Every Question You're Too Embarrassed to Ask (ft. Dr. Evan Goldstein) (opens the original)
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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in back bed with Dr. Evan Goldstein, founder of Bespoke Surgical, creator of Future Method, and author of Butt Seriously . They discuss anal health, pleasure, preparation, and all the questions people are often too embarrassed to ask. Topics discussed in this episode: Anal pleasure and breaking down taboos and myths Exploring anal stimulation for the first time The P-spot/prostate and prostate orgasms The A-spot and anal pleasure for women Topping vs.
Pt. 1 - I Asked a Butt Surgeon Every Question You're Too Embarrassed to Ask (ft. Dr. Evan Goldstein) (opens the original)
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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Dr. Evan Goldstein , founder of Bespoke Surgical, creator of Future Method, and author of Butt Seriously . They do a deep dive into anal sex, butt health, and everything you've always wanted to ask about your asshole. Topics Discussed Dr. Evan Goldstein's journey from heart surgery to anal surgery Coming out and discovering anal health as a medical specialty Cosmetic vs. functional anal procedures Hemorrhoids, fissures, skin tags, and anal
How Written Erotica Can Completely Change Your Sex Life (ft. Carly Pifer) (opens the original)
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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Carly, founder of Read Aurore, to talk about why written erotica is becoming one of the most powerful tools for pleasure, communication and self-discovery. Together they explore how true erotic stories differ from fantasy, why women are increasingly choosing erotica over visual porn, the psychology behind imagination and desire, how writing about sex can help process emotions and improve communication, and how reading erotica can inspire be
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