HeyJaredHusband Help Haven Podcast: Marriage Advice for Men Facing Separation, Affair or Divorce
Are you struggling to get your wife back? Marriage on the brink of divorce? The only one trying to save the relationship and keep the family together?
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When She Says "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You" (opens the original)
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What do you do when your wife says, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you"? I break down both halves of that sentence, why she's telling the truth (just not the whole truth), why the usual responses push her further away, and what to do instead. TL;DR - Work with the love that is still there, try to ease the pressure off her need to see an immediate return of "in love" feelings. This is Part 1 of the "When She Says" series. Free cheat sheet for this episode, no email required: https://husban
How to Use Boundaries in Marriage: 2 Words, 3 Steps (opens the original)
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What is the right way to use a boundary in marriage? That's exactly what this episode is all about. Every now and then I have a guy who's trying to save his marriage, but his wife is doing something that's legitimately destructive. He often feels like he's being cornered into divorce. My hope is that this episode will show you that there is indeed a way to say no to destructive behaviors in your spouse, but still say yes to the marriage. We'll cover the two words that my entire approach to bound
Why Boundary Advice Keeps Ending Marriages (opens the original)
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Boundaries are taught as a property line, enforced by a consequence, triggered by how you feel. Almost nothing is taught about lifting one. In Part 1 of this two-part episode I lay out the four things that go wrong in how boundaries are commonly taught, and why a tool meant to protect a marriage keeps getting used to end it. Part 2 is the framework. Free cheat sheet at husbandhelphaven.com/episode-38 0:00 The book his wife was reading 7:04 The standard model of boundaries 9:24 Problem 1: the tri
How I See Marriage Differently After 15 Years Helping Men (opens the original)
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You have been told your marriage failed because you did not communicate, or because she stopped being attracted to you. After 15 years running Husband Help Haven, I think both explanations are mostly wrong. In this episode I walk through five things I changed my mind about: why she is hurting rather than cruel, why connection (not attraction) is the real needle-mover in reconciliation, and why navigating separation is simpler than the industry makes it look. The end cap on the Coaching Learnings
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