HeyJaredHow To Have Sex
A podcast getting you in the right position for sexual success.Hosted by:Jay-Jay Feeney - 30+ years in radio, trusted voice for Kiwi women.Melissa Vranjes - Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, featured in VOGUE & GRAZIATogether, we combine humour and expert knowledge to…
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How To Find The Best Positions That Work For Women (opens the original)
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The best position isn’t necessarily the one that looks hottest in the Kama Sutra. This week, Jay-Jay Feeney and Melissa Vranjes are getting into positions - several of them, and figure out what actually makes one feel GOOD. Because different bodies like different things. You might not need a brand-new position altogether; maybe it’s a pillow, a tiny change in angle, a slower rhythm, more connection… or simply admitting, “Yeah, I hate this one.” We talk about: • Why there’s no single “best” posit
How To Get Back In The Dating Game (opens the original)
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Freshly single and not sure where to even start? Jay-Jay and Mel get into everything about getting back into the dating scene: why so many women are done settling for less, why dating apps leave everyone feeling weirdly empty, and how to tell the difference between nerves and real chemistry on a first date (spoiler: your body genuinely can't tell them apart). Plus: Mel's first-date story involving a 6:30am run, a firefighter, and a fart she could not hold in. It's not a serious episode start to
How To Have Hot Group Sex (opens the original)
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Grab an extra pillow. Actually, grab a few …. this week there's a waiting list outside the bedroom door. Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes are back in bed together for one of the most requested (and most avoided) topics yet: group sex. It turns out this has quietly been one of Mel's ultimate fantasies all along, and once she's finally cornered into admitting it, the conversation goes places…. including her actual, very unplanned real-life experience,
How To Have A Great Sex Life As Parents (opens the original)
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Congratulations, you got the kids to sleep! Now lock the door.... this episode is just getting started. Jay-Jay Feeney and certified somatic sex and relationship coach Melissa Vranjes sit down for one of the most requested topics yet: how to actually have a sex life once you've got kids. Melissa is three months postpartum with her second baby and deep in the newborn trenches, so this one's personal, honest, and refreshingly unfiltered. Together they unpack why parenthood doesn't kill your libido
How To Have Wild Casual Sex (opens the original)
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Mel is back in the saddle (well, the bed) after maternity leave, and she and Jay-Jay are diving straight into one of the most requested topics on the show: casual sex. Not the drunk, regretful, "what happened last night" kind; the confident, consensual, genuinely great kind. This week they cover where to actually meet people now that everyone's exhausted by dating apps, why the word "slut" deserves a serious rebrand, and the very real hormonal reason women tend to catch feelings faster after a g
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