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Deji Flygerian

Author of How To Be A DOPE Dad? | Father to 3 amazing girls | Advocate for real, intentional fatherhood. From the hood to hair braids & tea parties—sharing the honest, funny, and powerful journey of what being a present dad truly looks like.

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Sep 3, 2026
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  1. Issue · Sep 3, 2026

    She Wants Your Touch, Not Always Your D!ck (opens the original)

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    This is following conversation from my male cousin, I wont disclose name but if your close to me. You know who it is.Men, some of you only become affectionate when you’re horny.That’s the problem.You grab her waist when you want something. Kiss her neck when you want something. Pull her close when you want something.Then the rest of the day?Nothing.No random kiss in the kitchen. No hand on her thigh while you’re watching TV. No pulling her onto your lap. No touching her face just because you sti

  2. Issue · Aug 17, 2026

    I Didn’t Miss Out on Jim Legxacy (opens the original)

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    A friend asked me the other day,“Do you ever feel like you missed out with Jim Legxacy?”I thought about it for a second.Nah.I genuinely don’t.I’ve always loved music. Before management, I used to write music and ghostwrite for people. I could write, but I knew I was never going to be the performer. That was never me.I always preferred being behind the scenes.Finding talent. Coming up with ideas. Making calls. Trying to figure out how we could make money from this thing.And I’m not going to lie a

  3. Issue · Aug 17, 2026

    JUST DON’T GIVE A FUCK (opens the original)

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    I think one of the best things I’ve learned as I’ve got older is simple:Stop giving a fuck what people think.Seriously.Life is way too short to live it based on somebody else’s opinion of you.Four years ago, I was in Atlanta with two people close to me - my cousin and a female friend.Today, one is in the grave.The other is in prison.That alone changed the way I look at life.Because we really do walk around like we’ve got unlimited time.We don’t.So wear what you want.Start the business.Write the

  4. Issue · Aug 17, 2026

    Distance Doesn’t Kill Love. Lack of Effort Does (opens the original)

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    I know someone in a long-distance relationship and watching how he moves has actually made me look at them differently.He’s a proper lover’s boy. Old school. That 90s type of love.And ladies reading this, I’m telling you now, you’re not getting this level of effort from every man.They live thousands of miles apart, but somehow they’ve created their own little world together.Here are five things I’ve picked up from watching them make it work.1. Communication is everythingHe actually speaks to his

  5. Issue · Jul 31, 2026

    I Used to Sell 50 Cent CDs. Now My Brother Is in His Show (opens the original)

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    From a teenage G-Unit fan to watching Sylvester step into Fightland, this is what a full-circle family moment feels like.There are moments in life that make you stop and think, how did we get here?My brother, Sylvester, is in Fightland, a series from 50 Cent.<a class="image-link image2" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!0ozA!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazo

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